I have photographed thousands of people in my career. Honing into my skill as a premier boudoir photographer I have photographed more women. This has given me the edge to learning all the different shapes of a woman's body and posing women in a way, to assure they feel confident with their curves, baring them in their best light, However, not all of this is determined by posing, and in fact a lot of this can be handled by wardrobe choice. How, do you know what's best suited for you and your body type? How do you know what will hide those areas that you may not want to show as much and highlight the areas you do? Well, you don't typically, unless your a lingerie model, and so, that is where my expertise as your professional photographer will come in very handy.
First and foremost, you have to be able to identify your body shape. We are all not stick figured, and may even need help identifying this part. Many times to make the process easier for women, I will have them take a picture of them self standing straight and send it to me so that I can be able to start recommending the best lingerie or outfits to wear for their photoshoot. However for the sake of this blog, I recommend that you go ahead and do this for yourself. Examine your body closely and figure out which shape best identifies your body. Do you have those very curvy hips, or are you a little more rounded on the bottom and smaller up top? Are you pretty lean and long through out, or are you super bustier on the top and tiny in the middle? Once you can figure this part out, we move onto the next step, which would be the question of, what area of your body are you a little insecure about?
Shooting boudoir photography, I have learned that we, women, are supercritical creatures of ourselves. Trust me, I am no stranger to this thought process as well and have very much had to train my mind to thinking that I am sexy goddess. Our significant other can tell us how sexy we are every day of our life, but if we don't believe it, we will never feel it. From the size zero woman, to the size 26 women, I have heard it all. Though I may look at you and never guess that you have one insecurity in the world, you will tell me about 5 right off the bat. So with your help, I determine which part of you is just bat shit crazy because you are a sexy goddess and which area may not look the best if it is highlighted.
Now, it's very important to know that these rules do not always apply as we are all so very different in the way we can wear things. I am by no means a lingerie connoisseur, but I can visualize very easy what looks great on a real womens body. Here a few tips that I can lend to the beginner lingerie wearer. (Is that even how you say this?)
Women who are a little fuller in the mid section may not want to choose a bra and pantyset, (although there are posing tricks I can apply with this). I would most likely recommend a corset of some type, a baby doll, full body suit or a more loose fitting satin piece as you can see below.
Women who are taller, very skinny, and may not have as many curves, I would typically recommend something that would really highlight and push out the curves that you do have. In this instance, I would most likely not recommend a corset as it may make the thinned frame body look even more straight
Less, just may be best here. Let's push those curves out, I want to be able to see the curves of your body as much as possible. These lingerie pieces should highlight the hips, and waist, highlight the deep curves of the back and the fine lines of the butt.
I'll end with this, when choosing a boudoir photographer, do your research. Not everyone who photographs is specialized in every shoot. I always tell my women when doing a consult with me that this is not the type of session that you want to leave up to someone who is just starting out, is not as familiar with these sessions, or shoots primarily baby sessions. Trust me, the hands to the feet in happy baby pose, may make your husband happy, but it will not highlight you in your best light. Go with a trusted photographer who has a specialty in boudoir photography, someone whom you can go and ask other women about and they can give an honest opinion over, and someone who you feel comfortable with. Sharing a lot of this information about yourself is a very vulnerable area for most women. You want someone that you can have an open space with and a no judgement zone.
Here are some of my very favorite lingerie stores:
Hips and Curves
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