Congratulations! You're engaged! What is the first thing that you do? Well for most brides to be, it happens the second she says "yes." She will immediately share the news with the world! I mean come on, who doesn't like getting on Instragram and Facebook with those really fun pictures showing off your new ring? And seriously though, how easy is it with the quick status update? No matter how tempting, it's an engagement no-no to not pick up the phone and call your family members and friends. Now you are also going to want to set aside a few hours and make some more personal phone calls as well! After "congratulations" and "let me see your ring," here's the first thing people will ask: "When's the wedding?" It'll save you lots of headaches if the two of you come up with a very vague answer. Most people just want to feel somewhat involved and like they're in the loop. Most of your close friends and family will mentally put the date into their datebook, but it won't be solid until you send the (SAVE THE DATES.) This will give you and your guy a little direction as you start planning.